1. August
    9

    Parents Can Be Taught to Text

    Over the previous year I have written several blogs about teenagers and texting.  Recently I have started to use texting as a way to communicate with my friends instead of calling them.  However, my text messaging abilities are not at the level of an average teenager –  they are still much better at this than I am or will ever be.

    Recently I worked backstage at my daughters dance recital with six other dads.  Our job backstage was to set the props on the stage during the shows for the dancers and actors between routines.  Additionally, we had to communicate with each other across the stage and in the dark without being heard.  This year we decided to use SMS text messaging on our cell phones as our way to communicate across the stage.  The use of text messaging worked out well and was much more effective than what we had done in the prior years, which was to walk behind stage to the other side.  We could communicate and respond to each other in a matter of seconds with our cell phones through text messaging

    Now that I have started to use text messaging as another way to communicate, I may start looking for other applications that I can use on my mobile phone.  Who knows? This old dog may be able to learn some new tricks.

    michael.fields  michael.fields


  2. May
    18

    Text Messaging with Family: Delilah Guest Blog Post

    The AT&T’s Unlimited Data & Messaging plan is the perfect way for me to stay in touch with my large family. My teenage and adult children keep themselves very busy, and a text message or two during the day keeps us all connected. You can see their personalities emerge in their words, and it often makes me laugh out loud, and at the same time, feel connected if we’re away from each other for hours through the day. I can call my teenage daughter three times in ten minutes, all of the calls going to voicemail; I can text her at the same time, and get a reply in 10 seconds!  Go figure! Texting is the way they often communicate, it’s that simple.     So the best way to stay in touch is often with a text message, sending or receiving a picture via text, and using our AT&T phones to do so.    And all of it can happen along with all the data I want to use, for about a dollar a day…that’s the cost of the AT&T Unlimited Messaging and Data Plan, just $30 a month.

    BTW, I picked up a few shortcuts for those of us that are bit slower at texting. While a full keyboard has made it so easy to text, I still look for shortcuts. U R right, I do.  Look for the shortcut clues that come from your teens – they’re a great source of them! LOL.

    About Delilah

    Delilah, the most-listened-to-woman on radio in the U.S., embraced the medium when she was a middle-schooler in Reedsport, Oregon, reporting school news and sports on KDUN-AM, a small station in her hometown. Today, her soothing voice, open heart and love of music has expanded her audience from the folks in Reedsport to more than eight million people on over 200 radio stations in the U.S. and Canada.

    Her distinctive blend of story-telling, sympathetic listening and encouragement – all scored with adult contemporary soft rock – makes her top ranked in most markets among women 25-54. Delilah says her show is a “safety zone where listeners take off their armor, slip into a ‘Mr. Rogers’ cardigan, sit around the electronic hearth and share their secrets.”

    She adds that her audience is “just like me and the two women working on the show, who were once listeners. We are single parents who work hard to strike a balance between family and work life. We also enjoy our friendships and remember to laugh as much as possible.”

    This blog entry was sponsored by AT&T.  For information on Deliah and AT&T please click here http://www.delilah.com/pages/att.html


  3. March
    18

    Txtng & Drivng … It Can Wait

    You may remember Michael’s post in December on the important topic of texting while driving. AT&T recently launched a campaign  on this major issue.  

    Awareness is key.  Whether you’re talking on the phone, sending a text message, or even swapping CD’s, all of these basic tasks could take our focus off of the road while driving, leaving you less aware of your surroundings’ less aware of the road in front of you and the other drivers around you. 

    A July 2009 study by the Virginia Tech Transportation Institute concluded that texting while driving increases your risk of being in an accident by a factor of 23. 

    I know the temptation to respond to a text message as soon as you receive it. We live in a society that holds connectivity and availability in very high esteem.  When you’re in your car and behind the wheel, you’re not available.  Pull over to the side of the road or wait until you get to your destination before sending a text message.  No message is worth the opportunity cost of taking your focus off the road and endangering the lives of you, your passengers, and other drivers around you.

    Help spread the word about the dangers of texting while driving.  For more information on the campaign and to take the pledge to not text and drive, view AT&T’s Texting while Driving public education campaign.

    cory.bennett  cory.bennett


  4. March
    11

    Mom Learns to Send Text Messages from her AT&T Mobile Phone

    Getting a new phone is always exciting, especially when you get your hands on one of the many exciting options offered by AT&T.  That is doubly true for my mom and sister.  Not long before the holiday season, they both were in need of a new phone.  They weren’t ready for a smartphone, but liked a number of the new touch-screen phones available.  After watching Stephanie’s Samsung Solstice review, and trying it out for themselves, both decided to go with the Solstice.

    Then, the unexpected happened – my mom signed up for her first text messaging plan.  Now, instead of a phone call asking us what new clothes Fiona needs, we get a SMS message requesting size and color preferences. Sometimes we get MMS messages detailing the day’s purchases. We’ve decided that my mom is officially dangerous when in close proximity to anywhere that sells baby apparel. 

    My mom even invents her own shorthand, apparently not happy with this generation’s LOL, TTYL, and L8Rs.  I always knew I had a cool mom.  Now, she further proves the point via SMS.

    Message & data rates may apply. 

    cory.bennett  cory.bennett


  5. January
    28

    Update On The Mystery of Teenagers and Text Messages

    Last November I wrote a blog in reference to the mystery of teenagers and text messaging.  The blog focused on my daughter and the fact that she had 14,593 text messages in one month.  I also mentioned this seems impossible as she cannot text message while she is at her high school.  Plus she participates in a dance company where she dances a minimum of 3 hours a day during the week, almost every Saturday and occasionally on Sunday’s.  

    Until now I thought 14,593 text messages were impossible for her to exceed; however I am once again proven wrong by my children.  Last month she broke the 25K barrier with 25,449 text messages in one month.  This is equivalent to over 800 text messages a day which is unbelievable.  One reason for the increase is she was out of school and dance for winter break which lasted about 2 weeks.  However, 25,449 text messages in a month is still a lot of messages for anyone.

    I am considering looking up the Guinness World Record for text messages, as this could be the new record.  The teenagers today say thank goodness for wireless technology, however I am just thankful that unlimited text messaging is a feature that is offered and to which I subscribe.  Do you have teenagers that go to the extreme with text messaging? Did they ever exceed 25,000 text messages in one month?

    Standard usage rates apply to text messages, depending on your plan.

    michael.fields  michael.fields


  6. January
    19

    Happy New Year via a Text Message

    The way people depend on their mobile devices amazes me more and more each day.  For New Years my family went to Walt Disney World for six nights.  We celebrated New Year’s Eve in the Magic Kingdom.  Over my lifetime I have never seen a place as crowded before.  In fact, there were so many people in front of Cinderella’s Castle, it was almost impossible to get through the crowd.  What shocked me more than the size of  the crowd was the number of people text messaging on New Year’s Eve vs. the traditional phone call.  Around midnight the spectacular fireworks show began.  As that show ended the mobile devices came out everywhere and the text messages started. I myself was even guilty of text messaging “Happy New Year”.  I guess why tell someone “Happy New Year” when you can just text it to them?

    michael.fields  michael.fields


  7. December
    18

    No Message is Worth the Risk

    As the parent of a college and high school student it amazes me how much they rely on their mobile phones to communicate.  What amazes me more is how much they use their devices for text messaging vs. talking.  What really scares me is when a teenager or anyone tries to text message when behind the wheel of a car.

    Driving any vehicle requires the full concentration from the driver.  Not only do you need to concentrate on driving, but also on other drivers, obstacles in the road, people on bicycles and other things, such as people in crosswalks or just crossing the street.  If someone tries to text message while doing all of these activities the chances of causing or being part of an accident drastically increase.  I just think how hard it is to walk and chew gum at the same time.

    Driving is something that we all get better at over time.  A young driver needs to concentrate and focus on driving and avoid as many distractions as possible.   When I started driving in 1976, I was a teenager and thought I knew everything there was to know about driving.  I had my driver’s license for less than a month and decided to drive a car full of friends for ice cream on a rainy night.  I was trying to drive in the rain while talking, changing the radio and focusing on my friends.  That must have been when that large rock jumped in front of my car.  Luckily no one was injured (except my pride); however my parents pulled my driving privileges for a month.  I can only think this would have been a serious accident if I added text messaging into the mix.  But in 1976 we didn’t have mobile phones available. 

    Below are some tips to remind your children of as well as anyone you know who is driving a vehicle:

    • Don’t text and drive. No text message is worth the distraction.
    • Ask passengers to help by changing the CD or radio station, placing a cell phone call, or reading directions to you.
    • If you don’t have a passenger, wait until you come to a complete stop at a red light or stop sign before changing the CD or radio station.
    • If you need to make or take a call or respond to a text, wait until your trip is complete or pull over to do so.
    • Never use your phone to take pictures, send and read messages, record video, or watch TV while driving.
    • It’s best not to eat and drive at the same time. If you’re traveling with someone, take turns driving while the passenger eats.
    • Avoid stressful or emotional conversations while driving.
    • Use hands-free options or voice-activated dialing
    • Don’t be a “rubbernecker.” Let your passengers do the sightseeing while you drive.
    • Make safety your most important call. In the case of an emergency, a cell phone can be a very useful tool. Remember, dialing 911 is always a free call.

    Please do what you can to encourage safe driving for your family and friends.  Do you have teenagers that drive?   Remind them never to text and drive, no message is worth the risk.

    michael.fields  michael.fields


  8. December
    16

    Samsung Mythic Giveaway

    Hey!  I was recently given the opportunity to review the Samsung Mythic, and wanted to share with you some of the features I thought were the best especially for busy parents on the go.

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    Samsung Mythic

    Have I captured your interest? Well I have good news! We have one Samsung Mythic to give away to one lucky reader

    Here’s how to enter:

    1) Leave a comment here and tell us how the Samsung Mythic will help keep you calm, cool and connected.  Your e-mail address and phone number must be accurate in your comment so we’re able to contact you. Make sure you double check. (Don’t worry. These won’t be published.)

    2) You can also enter by writing a post on your blog answering the same question. Just be sure to leave a comment here linking to your post so we know where to find it.

    No purchase necessary. Void where prohibited. This sweepstakes runs from December 16 to Sunday, December 20, 2009. It is only open to individuals who, at the time of entry deadline, are legal residents of the United States and are 18 years or older; one entry per person. Wireless service is not included with the phone. The winner will be notified via phone on or about Tuesday, Dec. 22, 2009.

    For complete contest rules, including eligibility, click here.

    Standard usage rates apply to text messages and data usage, depending on your plan. See att.com/dataterms for terms and conditions.


  9. December
    4

    Timeout at Family Dinner

    During the Thanksgiving holiday weekend, our family had dinner at my wife’s cousin’s house on two separate occasions.  We had a total of 10 people at each dinner, spanning from three generations.  My mother-in-law and my wife’s cousin’s parents made up one generation.  My wife and I as well as her cousin and cousin’s husband made up another generation.  Finally my son (20 years old), daughter (16 years old) and their cousin (23 years old) made up the third generation.

    During the dinner my children were caught eating with one hand, which made everyone curious as to what they were doing.  Then we realized what was happening, as my children were seen using their mobile phones throughout dinner.  They were texting while they were eating, although they claimed to just be checking the time. I guess no one uses a watch anymore?   The mobile devices at the dinner table seemed to bother several people, which then sparked some comments.  

    Using mobile phones during the family dinner resulted in a new type of timeout, “mobile phone timeout.”  Do your children need a “mobile phone timeout” so they can have some quality family time?

    michael.fields  michael.fields


  10. November
    4

    The Mystery of Teenagers and Text Messages

    As the parent of a teenage daughter, I am curious how it is possible for someone to have over 14,000 text messages in a month.  What makes this more challenging is that she cannot text message while she is at her high school.  In addition she participates in a dance company where she dances 3 hours a day during the week, almost every Saturday and occasionally on Sunday’s.  

    Last month my daughter had 14,593 messages on her Samsung A737 phone.  The 14,593 messages is equivalent to about 486 messages a day, based on a 30 day month.  I do not know how this is possible given her schedule with high school and dance.  When I get home from work I have trouble watching one hour worth of TV.   Do you have teenagers that like to text message?

    michael.fields  michael.fields